有人说不要为了政见而导致一段关系破裂,但我说不要因为一段肤浅的关系而做不回自己
想想听到人说「想一千次不如去做一次」,最后真的鼓起了勇气,做自己想做的事。
近来,香港乱了,你我的心都开始慌了,心里像是有千言万语想说,但不知道可以怎么或在何处表达,这里成为了我的「树窿」,乱嗡长文会不定期发布。或许每个人都需要自己一个「树窿」,谢谢你们当我的「树窿」。
老实说,从前的你们是否与我一样政治冷感,觉得事不关己,己不劳心?觉得政治离自己很远?觉得自己改变不了什么?觉得生活要烦的事已经够多了?直至最近的6・9 、6・12、6・16及就在早几日的7・1,你还觉得离你很远吗?有人说不要为了政见而导致一段关系破裂,但我说不要因为一段肤浅的关系而做不回自己。
立场意见分歧乃属正常,但能否心平气和地抛开成见,理性讨论呢?如果一段关系,无论是亲情、友情还是爱情,如果无法做到这一点,你我根本没有再去维系这段关系的理由。
亲人,我们无法改变该血缘关系,我们只好默默的带著一丝希冀,或许有一天他们会理解,即使不理解,但只少不会再抱怨这班人「搞乱香港」。
爱人与朋友,是我们的选择。立场论点意见不同不要紧,但最重要是从中明白大家的立场,了解彼此更多,把两者的分歧减少,让本来或会破坏关系的因素变成使感情升华的补给品。若已努力尝试过,对方的回应与态度仍是「拒绝沟通」的,不要紧,只少你尽了作为另一半或朋友的责任。
社会政治运动使某些人踏上不同的路,双方背著大家越走越远。我并没有心存怪责,只盼有日我们回头看见大家,都会脸带微笑向对方问好。
There is a saying “It’s much better to act once than thinking a thousand times”. Eventually, I have decided to do what I'd like to do with courage.
Recently, Hong Kong has got sick. You and I can feel it too. There's so much word and feeling I want to say, but it’s too difficult to express or describe it. Maybe we just all need a secret and comfortable place for us to unburden the stress and here it is! Thank you for being with me here. It will be updated frequently!
Honestly, were you also being political apathy same as me before? Feeling politics is far from us and nothing much we can do about it or make a change? Thinking there’s much more thing needed to be taken care of in life? Do you still think it’s not close to our life after all the things happened on 9th June, 12th, 16th and 1st July? Some people said “Don’t lose a relationship because of politics.”
I said, “Don’t lose yourself because of a superficial relationship.”
Having dispute and different opinions or points of view is normal. What’s most important is to have a peaceful and rational discussion without perceptions or prejudgement objectively. If a relationship (family, friendship or love) can’t even do this little thing, just let it go. There’s no more reason to maintain those kinds of “relationship”.
Family, we have no choice but to silently wish they would understand it someday. At least they wouldn’t blame the protestors.
Friends and lover, we have the choice. It’s doesn’t matter to have different opinions because it helps you to understand each other more through the differences, to minimize the gap between two of you and let the factor which might be harmful originally to become a supplement for the relationship. If you already tried your best, still couldn’t make any positive effects on the relationship, it’s okay, at least you have done your part.
I’m not blaming politics tears us apart. I just hope someday when we look back and see each other, there’s a smile on our face.
