有人說不要為了政見而導致一段關係破裂,但我說不要因為一段膚淺的關係而做不回自己

想想聽到人說「想一千次不如去做一次」,最後真的鼓起了勇氣,做自己想做的事。
近來,香港亂了,你我的心都開始慌了,心裡像是有千言萬語想說,但不知道可以怎麼或在何處表達,這裡成為了我的「樹窿」,亂嗡長文會不定期發佈。或許每個人都需要自己一個「樹窿」,謝謝你們當我的「樹窿」。
老實說,從前的你們是否與我一樣政治冷感,覺得事不關己,己不勞心?覺得政治離自己很遠?覺得自己改變不了什麼?覺得生活要煩的事已經夠多了?直至最近的6・9 、6・12、6・16及就在早幾日的7・1,你還覺得離你很遠嗎?有人說不要為了政見而導致一段關係破裂,但我說不要因為一段膚淺的關係而做不回自己。
立場意見分歧乃屬正常,但能否心平氣和地拋開成見,理性討論呢?如果一段關係,無論是親情、友情還是愛情,如果無法做到這一點,你我根本沒有再去維繫這段關係的理由。
親人,我們無法改變該血緣關係,我們只好默默的帶著一絲希冀,或許有一天他們會理解,即使不理解,但只少不會再抱怨這班人「搞亂香港」。
愛人與朋友,是我們的選擇。立場論點意見不同不要緊,但最重要是從中明白大家的立場,瞭解彼此更多,把兩者的分歧減少,讓本來或會破壞關係的因素變成使感情昇華的補給品。若已努力嘗試過,對方的回應與態度仍是「拒絕溝通」的,不要緊,只少你盡了作為另一半或朋友的責任。
社會政治運動使某些人踏上不同的路,雙方背著大家越走越遠。我並沒有心存怪責,只盼有日我們回頭看見大家,都會臉帶微笑向對方問好。
 
There is a saying “It’s much better to act once than thinking a thousand times”. Eventually, I have decided to do what I'd like to do with courage.
Recently, Hong Kong has got sick. You and I can feel it too. There's so much word and feeling I want to say, but it’s too difficult to express or describe it. Maybe we just all need a secret and comfortable place for us to unburden the stress and here it is! Thank you for being with me here. It will be updated frequently!
Honestly, were you also being political apathy same as me before? Feeling politics is far from us and nothing much we can do about it or make a change? Thinking there’s much more thing needed to be taken care of in life? Do you still think it’s not close to our life after all the things happened on 9th June, 12th, 16th and 1st July? Some people said “Don’t lose a relationship because of politics.” 
I said, “Don’t lose yourself because of a superficial relationship.”

Having dispute and different opinions or points of view is normal. What’s most important is to have a peaceful and rational discussion without perceptions or prejudgement objectively. If a relationship (family, friendship or love) can’t even do this little thing, just let it go. There’s no more reason to maintain those kinds of “relationship”. 
Family, we have no choice but to silently wish they would understand it someday. At least they wouldn’t blame the protestors.
Friends and lover, we have the choice. It’s doesn’t matter to have different opinions because it helps you to understand each other more through the differences, to minimize the gap between two of you and let the factor which might be harmful originally to become a supplement for the relationship. If you already tried your best, still couldn’t make any positive effects on the relationship, it’s okay, at least you have done your part.
I’m not blaming politics tears us apart. I just hope someday when we look back and see each other, there’s a smile on our face.

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